Programming Her To Orgasm On Command

“Orgasming on command” is a common BDSM fantasy and (judging from what I read on the internets) a fairly common play project as well. How well it is reported to actually work varies a lot, with enthusiasts and skeptics both reporting in whenever this comes up in conversation. I like what This Girl has to say on the subject, and I’ve added my own bold emphasis on what strikes me as the smartest part of it:

This girl can’t remember when exactly, but Grimly built a brainwashing mask maybe about six years ago now. He designed it especially with her in mind because part of her still held back, part of her wanted to be controlled but the sort of headstrong independent part of her character was needing to be conquered, to submit because she had no choice that it was the natural version of events, because of his cunning, strength, dominance, ability, and basically him being an evil brainwashing bastard.

Grimly used a combination of the mask, electrotherapy and neuro linguistic programming to put a trigger in this girl’s head that whenever she heard a certain word (later a few different words) that she would orgasm and that she wouldn’t orgasm otherwise. This meant that even over the phone, just from hearing his voice this girl could orgasm.

Some people might not believe this, or might say that its faked. The thing is though, you believe what you want to believe. For most of the last seven or so years this girl has believed it to the point where she *has* orgasmed from his commands, more intensely from play and pain than from not, but even from cold she has orgasmed from his trigger word.

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Waiting For Her Turn

One of the many challenges of life as a chained-pet slavegirl is that sometimes master leaves you alone with your bowl of crunchies for two or three days while he plays with his new toys:

slave girl watches her master play with a new toy

And there isn’t a lot you can do but watch quietly (if you know what’s good for you) and crunch your kibble in a jealous fury.

The artist is Lon Ryden from the current issue (Volume V, Number V, Dreamscapes) of the Tales Of Gnosis College comic series by Dr. Faustus.

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It’ll Wash, Girl…

From Down The Rabbit Hole, some wisdom on safewords:

The morning started with a run and ended up with being brutally sodomised in the shower. For the record His icy cold hand on a very warm clit feels like the worst kind of torture.

The day ended with cum on the face.

Oh, and squeaking “clean hair” is not a safeword. Who knew?

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Cherry Torn’s About To Eat A Bug

Cherry Torn in bondage with centipedes crawling on her

This picture of Cherry Torn about to eat a bug comes from Infernal Restraints.

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A Plumber And His Duct Tape

The most recent update from Sex And Submission features an excellent retro capture scene featuring a plumber with a big roll of duct tape:

horny plumber with a role of duct tape and some bondage sex on his mind

captured and gagged with duct tape

he\'s removed her gag so he can insert his cock

A short trailer for the shoot is here.

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Whatever Happened To Secret Magazine?

Back when there used to be lots more big box bookstores with huge magazine racks and I was still in the habit of buying actual paper books and magazines, there was always a stylish fetish magazine called Secret. It was expensive and hard to find (I think most of the actual issues in my collection were bought used on eBay) but I’d see it for sale from time to time and admire it. But I haven’t been in a bookstore in over a year and I haven’t seen Secret in quite a bit longer than that. Whatever happened to it?

Well, a chance web search the other day landed me on the Secret magazine web page. And it turns out that the most recent issue (and from the sound of things, perhaps final) edition was #36, which came out in a limited edition in September 2011. The reason for the magazine’s decline are pretty much encoded in my first paragraph:

One year has passed and I was only able to produce one issue. What has happened? To be quite honest, my USA distributors didn’t pay me for the last two issues and I was almost broke, finished. Thanks to a reader, a fan, an admired of Secret Magazine, I was able to print this issue, but sadly enough, it was only printed at 1000 copies! A limited edition! A collectors item!

We were forced to reduce the print run of SECRET Magazine because nobody is buying it anymore. Again why? Probably because our readers now all have Internet, notepads, smart phones, where a quick fix is so easy, so fast, and so virtual! Sex, porn, fetish, rubber, leather, dominatrix, Mistresses…it’s all available online, for free, so people don’t buy quality products anymore. We have passed from the paper area to the digital world. Most of the magazines are online now. News travels at the speed of Face book pages, twitters, blogs, and so on, that paper publications are unable to follow this. It’s called evolution.

Fortunately there is some good news. The Secret publisher is still selling such issues as remain in print, and many others (it looks like about 17 issues) are available for free in .pdf format on this page. Enjoy!

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Bondage Pole Dancing

You might have thought bondage and pole dancing were incompatible. If so, you thought wrong. All she needs is the right incentive!

tied to a post and switched on her calves until she can\'t stop dancing

Trust the gentle folk at Real Time Bondage to work all the bugs out of the procedure for you.

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