May 20th, 2023

The Liberation Of Kink

I was fascinated to read the kinky femdom artist Sardax reminiscing about his first view of the internet, and his instant grasp of its liberatory effect for kinky artists:

The first time I saw the internet was a complete revelation.

One summer’s day around ’96 I was at the seaside home of an erotic writer, who also happened to be a pioneer of the web. He had invited me to see his new Apple Mac – “his wonderful machine” and the astonishing ‘Internet’.
Through a fug of heavy cigarette smoke I gazed at his magic lantern, at something called a ‘website’!
“Surely they can’t show that ??” I gasped as we looked at some dubious page.

I was reminded of the famous lines of Keats poem, ‘On First Looking into Chapman’s Homer’ :-

Then felt I like some watcher of the skies
When a new planet swims into his ken;

I could see that the rules had all changed. We could now write and depict virtually what we wished. Oh, sure, the webhost was in between but they were usually quite liberal, hippy and unintrusive . And kinky art was liberated, as was a lot more. No longer did I need to worry whether my drawings would be published because I could be the publisher.

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March 20th, 2023

A Cowgirl’s Captives

In the 1940s pulp story that this graphic once illustrated, I assume our dashing cowgirl was rescuing these hapless cowboys. But it’s more fun to assume she’s got them right where she wants them:

cowboys in bondage

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April 15th, 2021

Rosario Dawson’s Chamber Of Pain

ErosBlog found this amazingly sexy photo of Rosario Dawson in dominatrix getup, holding down the center of attention in a spectacularly-grim dungeon playroom:

rosario dawson in leather femdom gear

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August 29th, 2020

Mistresses Of Bondage

ziptied thumbs male submissive

The Bondage Blog motto is “taking pleasure in the beauty of restrained women” but I don’t hew to that exclusively. In particular, there’s a lot of bondage femdom imagery out there that’s plenty worthwhile, if you can suspend your preference for men-on-top long enough to appreciate it. And if you’re one of the many men who enjoy the firm hand of a strong woman now and then, well! This post is definitely for you.

giving a femdom blowjob and filming it with a phone cam

One thing that’s long puzzled me is the dual service played by the word “mistress.” Linguistically it’s the female version of “master”, which mostly explains its use in BDSM. But in our actual history, it has served more often as a polite honorific for any woman of power or high status. Simultaneously, though, it saw even greater use as a synonym for “kept woman” — a form of sex worker in a long term arrangement with one usually-wealthy usually-married man. The power imbalances there were always in favor of the man, which makes it a puzzling usage of “Mistress.”

ball torment by blonde mistress

Luckily for us, the rise to prominence of commercial femdom has reclaimed most of the BDSM connotations of mistresses who are understood to be female masters. It’s true that men have been going to brothels to get dominated by women for as long as our historical records of sex work run. There’s nothing new about that. But various kinds of electronic service providers — like the femdom cam performers at Mistress World — have greatly raised the visibility of mistresses in the computer age. As, too, has the proliferation of BDSM artwork that the internet facilitates.

gimp-kicking mistress

Of course, not all femdom BDSM requires bondage, strictly construed. Sometimes a disabling toe kick straight to the balls, delivered while your henchwoman stands by with a phone cam to film the humiliation, is perfectly sufficient to establish dominance:

femdom kick to the balls

One of my pet peeves in BDSM (whichever gender is dominant in any given moment) is the too-frequent belief that dominance is undermined by displays of affection. I don’t buy it and I never have. I’d argue that this mistress’s dominance over her male submissive is quite sufficient — his wrists are tied and he’s blindfolded and he dare not move if he wants that foot job to reach a pleasant conclusion. Her kiss? It’s not remotely undermining her authority:

handcuffed male submissive gets a footjob and a kiss

Hope you have enjoyed today’s selection of femdom mistresses!

Image credits, top to bottom: Submissive man with ziptied thumbs is by S.M.O.K.E. Handcuffed femdom blowjob is by BOW. Blonde mistress tugging on tied balls is by Youkan. Gimp-kicking mistress with camera is by Tonoa. Humiliating kick to the balls is by Momio. Femdom footjob and kiss is by Ukim.

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January 4th, 2017

The Femdom Tribulations Of Hipponax

Hipponax was a Greek poet who lived 500 years before the Christian era. You think the Marquis de Sade had a dirty mind? Well you’re right, but Hipponax was right up there with him. Supposedly he was so offensive he got thrown out of Ephesos and wound up begging for a living in the city of Klazomenai. Here’s his The Miseries of Poetry, as translated from the Greek by Alexandra Papaditsas and Kent Johnson:

In Lydian tone she said, “Come hither, I will plug up
your tight asshole.” And she beat my egg sack with a sprig
of lilac as if I were a satyr. I fell backwards, breathing
heavy, and caught there by writhing vines I suffered
torture times two, and then some: A dried rose stem
lashed my man-tits; someone smeared me with cow’s
shit, and then my ass started stinking like Hades.
Dung beetles came, sucked there by the fetid
gook, like roan-filled flies. Bugs with their alphabet-eating
sounds: They covered me and shoved inward, burrowed
deep, filing their teeth without pity on my bones.

I hurt so bad, I might as well have had the Pygelian plague.

It might have been a fun date, right up until that bitch Poetry brought out the dung and the beetles…

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November 23rd, 2016

Virtual Reality BDSM Porn

It is my impression that the nascent craze for virtual reality (VR) porn — we’re talking especially about the newest stuff that’s designed for the spiffy and expensive eye-tracking VR headsets — has been slow to reach the bondage and BDSM porn markets. In part this is a conceptual problem. The best VR porn so far has been point-of-view (POV) stuff that puts you in the viewpoint of the (usually male) participant. When the porn performers are right up in the sex, that’s frequently a compelling viewpoint, and one that’s rather different from most mainstream porn (although POV stuff has long been an available niche). On the other hand, the point-of-view perspective of a bondage top or a sadistic dom inflicting a punishment, although pleasant enough, doesn’t differ (as much) from the usual camera angles used to film BDSM porn. The upshot seems to be — and here I’m speculating far beyond my knowledge — that in the BDSM porn realm, VR technology is a solution that hasn’t yet found its problem. It’s a technology that may still be in search of its impossible-to-live-without “killer app.”

I can hear you out there saying “That’s all fine, Rope Guy, but Santa Clause is bringing me an Oculus Rift for Christmas, and the very first thing I want to do with it is to boot up some kinky porn. What’s out there for me?”

Well, if that’s your situation, you lucky perv, I have a site to suggest. You can begin your search for kinky virtual reality porn at VRPorn.com, which is a site that pulls together pretty much all the VR porn they can find, in whatever format. In recent correspondence they told me that they emphatically aim to include “virtually all the BDSM VR porn on the internet” and will be updating the site whenever new stuff is released. Meanwhile, the selection of bondage and BDSM porn they already have is bigger than I’ve seen at any of the other VR porn sites, leading me to suspect they’ve done a good job of aggregating what’s out there:

vr porn bondage screenshot

As the above screenshot suggests, VRPorn.com doesn’t limit itself strictly to commercial VR porn movies. Although trailers and links to ready-to-buy movies are perhaps the heart of the site, they are a true aggregator, and they’ve assembled a wide variety of freely downloadable VR clips, games, and apps from a variety of sources, in the wildest profusion of hentai, anime, and western-CGI styles:

masked men ravish a CGI waifu

In roaming around the kinkier corners of the VRPorn.com site, I also came to realize that there’s at least one kinky fetish that’s already an excellent fit with the virtual reality format. Although we may all still be waiting for the innovative creative visual rethink that will make rope bondage or whipping porn extra-compelling in VR, in the realm of femdom I think you’ll have to agree that leather-clad facesitting dommes are already making excellent use of the form:

vr-porn-facesitting

I have been a bad boy this year and I do not believe that Santa Clause will be putting a VR headset in my Christmas stocking. But if I’m wrong and if he does, I’ll be at VRPorn.com before the kittens have had time to get bored with the wrapping paper.

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November 16th, 2015

Lady Sonia’s Bondage Tit Job

dominatrix lady sonia shackled to her own bed with her own cuffs

Did you ever have one of those days when you wish you just hadn’t bothered to go into work? Lady Sonia is having one of those days.

These photos are from a huge gallery of more than 400 photos in the very large members area at Lady Sonia. They are from what was supposed to be a femdom session, in which one of her male “pets” that she was dominating turned out to be just a little bit more dangerous than she was expecting. While she was right in the middle of her canned dominatrix scold about how, the dude being supposedly a pathetic worm, she wasn’t planning to let him have an orgasm today, he just grabbed her, tore open her top, and cuffed her to her own dungeon-studio bed, using the same steel shackles she had been planning to use on him. Whoopsie!

stripping and fondling lady sonia and her big naked boobs as she is handcuffed helplessly to her own bed

Then our not-so-submissive hero began to enjoy himself at his leisure, fondling her breasts, licking them, and sucking them, while she alternated between glaring impotently and losing herself in the rather nice sensations:

lady sonia struggles as her submissive male client dominates her and licks her breasts

sucking on lady sonia's helpless titties

licking and sucking lady sonia's boobies as she lies helpless in bondage

Finally he climbed aboard, and helped himself to a very lengthy and luxurious tit job that she couldn’t do one darn thing to prevent:

supposedly submissive male client helping himself to an unwelcome titjob from lady sonia

I hope he left her a generous tip for her services!

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February 23rd, 2015

Guide To Finding A Dominatrix

Guys and gals, don’t panic. The motto here at Bondage Blog is “taking pleasure in the beauty of restrained women” and I don’t plan to change that any time soon (or ever).

However, I know from years of association with you polymorphously perverse kinksters that a lot of you swing both ways when it comes to who gets tied up and who does the tying. I’ve fielded a lot of “it’s so hard to find a dominant woman to play with in my area” complaints and queries over the years, so when the gentlemen from XXX Sex Guides sought me out for some link love to their resource page for finding a mistress or dominatrix near you, I totally didn’t mind obliging them. Check it out:

dominatrix guide

Female-dominant companionship is not something I have any experience in seeking out, but these resources look like a very reasonable place to start. I hope you find them useful and enjoyable!

xxx sex guides

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October 24th, 2014

Revenge For The Blowjob Machine

Remember the automatic blowjob machine, which consisted of a reciprocating sex machine, a ring gag, and an open-mouthed girl with a forcibly and endlessly reciprocating head? Well, Isis Love thinks that sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander. Thus she’s cobbled up the automatic pussy machine to torment hard but helpless men at Divine Bitches:

Isis Love with her answer to the blowjob machine

It’s simplicity itself: a Fleshlight (which she has clearly bedazzled!) married to a Fuck Saw.

Isis Love's pussy machine

She’s coming for Wolf Hudson’s jism and she plans to extract it all:

Isis Love and her automatic pussy machine

Isis Love takes her revenge for the blowjob machine concept

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August 27th, 2013

The Debilitator

For all those times when you literally don’t want her to move a muscle, The Stockroom has got you covered with a fiendish bondage device called The Debilitator:

\"The Debilitator\" immobilizing bondage devices from Sex and Metal at The Stockroom

They explain:

Rather than binding the wrist or ankle in restrictive materials, the Debilitator goes to the heart of the matter, pinning and disabling the forearm or calf of your sub for total temporary immobilization. Slip the steel band around the extremity you wish to immobilize, adjust the stakes and screws to apply firm, even pressure around the appropriate muscles. Turn set screw until it stays in place.

That’s all there is to it. Without breaking skin or securing a lock, you’ve managed to completely paralyze your sub’s limb. The effect is uncomfortable, but not overly painful, which makes it a great tool for training and light-to-intense discipline.

I have to say, too, that even though Bondage Blog covers female domination of men only only rarely, the Debilitator strikes me as being extra fun for use in femdom scenarios. Bondage devices (like The Humbler) that negate or subvert male strength are always fun, and this thing is essentially a pain-bounded prison for a specific muscle group. What’s not to like?

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March 4th, 2013

Intruder Alert For Lady Sonia

Even a dominatrix can have a bad day. Although frankly I think Lady Sonia is enjoying this home invasion more than she lets on:

Lady Sonia tied up on her own couch by a horny masked intruder

masked intruder plays with Lady Sonia

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January 18th, 2013

Friday Bondage Links Cornucopia #76

Another weekend coming, time for some more Friday bondage links:

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December 7th, 2012

Friday Bondage Links Cornucopia #73

Another Friday, another batch of bondage links for you:

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September 28th, 2012

Friday Bondage Links Cornucopia #68

Time for bondage links? Again?

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March 9th, 2012

BDSM And Stress Relief

Today’s tweet o’ the day comes from Mistress Matisse:

When life is full of change and stress, it’s very soothing to go into my dungeon, be The Mistress, do what I’m good at, and control EVERYTHING.

February 22nd, 2012

Sukia’s Dungeon

This is from the cover of a eurocomic called Sukia:

whip woman in her dungeon with three whippees

She seems much more serene than her “guests”…

August 17th, 2011

Nut Crusher

As a man who wants his nuts handled with the greatest of gentle care, I really can’t be seen approving of items like this. And yet, it scores a full 100% on the “cool gear” score:

nut crusher

It’s the Nut Crusher from The Stockroom, and you’ve got to be amused by the “simple instructions for use”:

This supremely sturdy steel CBT device is designed to hold the balls in place while you turn the screw to apply pressure. Even the threat of such a squeezing is likely to cause a wince in the hardest of subs, and this heavy duty apparatus is more than capable of backing up any threats you care to make.

Simple instructions for use:

1) Unscrew the bottom ring on the flask using the included allen wrenches, and insert testicles.

2) Re-attach the ring, trapping the balls in the flask portion of the device.

3) Turn the vise screw slowly clockwise, until desired pressure is obtained by lowering the crushing press.

4) Watch them squirm!

2016 update: No longer sold. But there is a different model ball crusher available still.

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March 4th, 2011

Friday Bondage Links Cornucopia #19

It’s Friday. You want your bondage links. This is the right place to be, then:

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December 11th, 2010

Whipping Red Gazelle

I could do without the racist misogyny in the dialogue box, but I guess that’s how we are to know he’s a villain, so there’s no sympathy for him when the ladies turn the tables on him and brand his ass with branding irons later in the story. The fact that he’s whipping his Indian wife as she slogs along tied to a horse? Not enough clue, I guess.

Indian wife tied and whipped by her abusive husband

It’s a panel from an old Eric Stanton femdom comic called Belle Star, and there’s more at ErosBlog.

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