Bondage Blog

From this post on the The Bound Forum, a metal-heavy self-bondage setup:

Having completed a recent purchase binge I have come up with a nice restrictive all metal setup to have a nice nap.

First thing is to lock the ankles in Irish 8 leg irons. Then I have Hiatt oversize ankle irons that fit my elbows perfectly. They are Quik Linked together (those little oval connectors that screw closed- 1/8″ smallest available; can be tightened with wrench for security) and chain goes to Darby style neck collar. Arms are in front.

Next for the wrists is Hamburg 8 style handcuffs. Easy to use and very comfortable; rigid but hinged. Then come the thumbcuffs; double locked of course.

This setup is easy to get into and out of. Comfortable for nap but metal bondage all over.

It’s urban legend time:

Supposedly a motorist was unknowingly caught in an automated speed trap that measured his speed using radar and photographed his car. He later received in the mail a ticket for $40, and a photo of his car.

Instead of paying the ticket, he sent the police department a photograph of two $20 bills. Several days later, he received a return envelope from the police. It contained nothing but another photograph — of handcuffs.

Now this is really a bondage offer he can’t refuse:

Though I’m no longer in the intensive BDSM lifestyle, I still love a hard spanking sessions, having my ankles and wrists bound with my ass sticking up in the air, my face pressed to the soft sheets. It makes me the best la petite possible, its sort of like the “Refresh button” for my sex drive.

Last night as I lay on my bed with Gadget talking about his current issues with his work space, I interrupted our serious chat with some well-reasoned thoughts:

I really would love for you to press my shoulders to the bed and spank me until my bottom is red. Maybe I can stand in front of you after and thank you by doing that thing you love, the dance thing.

He laughs in that way that isn’t really laughter but shows his amusement and interest. I hear him fumbling through the dresser drawer as I rip off my tight tee and kneeled on the bed in my white and blue polka dot panties. I can feel the air pressing on me; warm, heated by expectation and lust.

When he stands next to me, as I kneel, I’m shorter than he, like always but now I feel a smallness, a need to do what he wants, what he needs. The cold metal of the black steel handcuffs presses to my delicate wrists, the tightness of it as the little clicks tighten against me, denting into my flesh. His voice surrounds me:

You’ve been so naughty. Naughty girl.

He holds the chain of the cuffs as he uses his other hand to tilt my face up to him, his mouth wet and hot and as kisses me with renewed passion…

Mistress Matisse has written a great column on the distinction between wanting hot BDSM sex and “being a slave”. When people tell her they want to be someone’s slave, she asks them why:

The word “slave” is not just a generic term for any kinky person who likes to be the one wearing the handcuffs. But the answers I often get indicate to me that this is not well understood. Most of the time, people respond to my question by telling me about their desire for sex and intense stimulation. It’s the erotic fantasy of the bondage, of beautiful, threatening people in sexy outfits wielding nipple clamps and dildos.

Those are all hot things. I like them myself. But wanting to experience those things doesn’t make you a slave. I do BDSM with lots of people, but I would not call any of them “my slave.” (Nor would most of them want me to.)

To BDSM people, being a slave means undertaking an ongoing relationship of voluntary servitude to another person—a master or a mistress. The key word here is “relationship.” Saying you want to be a slave so you can do BDSM all the time is like saying you want to get married so you can have hot sex all the time. It’s not that it never works that way, but just as marriage is about much more than just sex, being a slave is about more than just doing BDSM scenes. And just as not everyone who has sex wants to get married, not everyone who wants to get tied up and spanked really wants to be a slave—no matter how hot the idea seems right before an orgasm.

Read the whole thing, it’s worth your time.

With apologies to Mother Goose:

He gave her some broth
without any bread
then spanked her quite soundly
and tied her in bed.

No really, he did:

I was put to bed the night before with wrists cuffs on, ankles cuffed together and a gag in my mouth. A gag was always a part of my little ‘tie myself up nice and quick’ sessions, usually a scarf or two with a piece of towelling to go inside the mouth and stop the drool from coming out. I’ve never found a lot of body fluids exciting and a wet spot made of drool was something I definitely didn’t want on my bed.

Ball gags seem to be made for humiliation- there is no way to stop the drool. I was lying there in bed prodding the thing with my tongue, trying to find a position that was comfortable. My bum was still smarting from its workout and on my side, with head tilted a little down to get some slack in the strap and take the pressure off my jaw -that was how I finally fell asleep.

If girls want to be slaves, there’s no harm in that. How could there be? Wonder Woman herself says so:

I don’t normally use words like “boobie” — that one is sort of third grade, y’know? — but alliteration is fun and sometimes — as in the case of extremely-well-endowed Hogtied.com model Jada Fire, it just seems appropriate. She’s well-endowed, and in a lot of boobie bondage:

If the cross ropes don’t strike you as pretty, here’s a more conventional breast tie:

And here’s evidence that the ol’ meanies at Hogtied.com are pervs first, and pornographers second. What sort of evil mind does it require to give this young lady bricks for breast pillows?

Here’s a front view, in case you missed it:

Not, not, not nice at all.

Still don’t believe me? There are more pictures and video.

Elsewhere on Bondage Blog:

• A Belt Around Her Boobs
• Helpless Breast Bondage
• Roped Slavegirl With Enormous Boobs
• Really Big Breast Bondage
• Flexible Slavegirl, Hogtied