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An interesting graph derived from data at one of the big online dating sites, as reported here:

I think this says more about gender differences in socialization about what sorts of things to divulge, though, than about any underlying actual desires and preferences. Young people these days of either gender are much more likely to say what they want, so I believe/trust the youth end of that scale. The rest of the chart, I suspect, may say more about what men and women were taught in various times past was acceptable to want and the extent to which it was proper to admit (even to themselves) what they want.

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Have I really been doing a bondage links post every week for thirty weeks?

• Let’s start off today with a link to Spanking Blog, where there is a nice bondage spanking illustration by the legendary Bob Bishop.
• Corner time? But she won’t stay in her corner? Two handcuffs will sort her out.
• Tied feet — let the bastinado commence!
• Presenting the ass lock. It’s a real steel locking anal pear, no kidding! This actually deserves its own post; stay tuned.
• BDSM doesn’t always have to be about skinny little barely-legal models. It works pretty well on middle-aged wives, too!
• You know those horrid steel futon frames that are hideously uncomfortable to sit or sleep on? They’re still not worthless, as the legs make good attachment points if you’ve got some nude girls you don’t want to let escape.
• The bondage caning is always more fun when the girl is crying already, amirite?
• All it takes is a little bit of bondage tape, and you’ve got an excellent free show going on.
• Dungeons and pillories and naked women and whips — they never get old.
• Capture the boobs, cane the boobs. She won’t like it — but isn’t that sometimes the point?
• She’s leashed, collared, and forced to lick her own boobs.
• The collar, the leash, and the look on her face all tell me she’s soon gonna be wearing a lot less clothes.
• Here’s your philosophy question for the day, like the old “tree falling that nobody sees” one. If you give a good double-handed hard squeeze to a girl’s boobs, but she’s gagged and can’t complain so there’s no noise, did it ever happen? Or do you have to just do it again?
• How about an anime girl strapped down tight to a spanking bench and getting her ass turned bright red?
• Recipe for a good blowjob: One couch, one naked girl, one set of ankle cuffs, one set of furry handcuffs.
• The burning candle in her mouth is dripping hot wax on her boobs. But dropping it is likely to be worse. What’s a girl to do?
• I am not entirely sure what complex medical procedure is here being attempted, but if it takes a nurse, a pair of rubber gloves, rope bondage, and a huge tube of lube, it must be fun, right?
• A nice set of nipple clamps is a good way to make sure a woman doesn’t slouch. If you set ’em up right.
• It looks like this bondage girl is in for a long night of it. How many times do you think she’s been spanked already?
• She’s hogtied and getting her feet caned — I guess that explains the unhappy look on her face.

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I like the hand gripping her hair in this artwork. The pincers in his other hand? Those, I could do without:

It’s from a comic called Forbidden Dreams by Pinti.

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A few paragraphs of rare clarity on the whole feminist opposition to BDSM fooferaw:

Men who enjoy dominating and humiliating women in a BDSM context, actually just enjoy dominating and humiliating their sex partner… and they happen to be heterosexual. There are men who enjoy dominating and humiliating other men exist as well, women who enjoy dominating and humiliating men exist, women who enjoy dominating and humiliating women exist. It’s not about subjugating women, or men or any one else, it’s about consensually pretending to subjugate your sex partner, because you both enjoy it, it’s the game you happen to like. It’s not about misogyny/misandry… it’s about what sex/gender turns you on.

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[H]ow can these good, decent, kind hearted, egalitarian men enjoy tying up their girlfriends and beating them?

Because their girlfriends consent, because their girlfriends enjoy it. It’s not about man dominating woman because he’s man and she’s woman and that’s how it goes. It’s about two lovers, one who is sexually aroused by delivering pain/dominance/etc and another who is sexually aroused by receiving pain/dominance/etc.

Just so.

This is clearly not the massage/spa experience she thought she was signing up for:

Also from UseNet.

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In some houses, the rule is that slaves must treat each other with constant warmth and affection. Slaves who fight each other and nurse petty jealousies make for an unhappy house, and an unhappy house leads to an unhappy master. And when Master ain’t happy, there ain’t nobody happy.

Fortunately, it has been discovered that if you take two fractious girls and chain them in close proximity, they’ll usually “kiss and make up” after four or five boring hours:

From Usenet.

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I hate thick-headed salesmen:

The salesman looked at me like I was crazy when I explained the need for a headboard that had slats so I could handcuff people to it.

Yet another bondage Text From Last Night.