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Kaya quotes somebody from FetLife on dominance and submission:

This:

“Women are willful. Willfulness leads to being headstrong. Being headstrong leads to testing limits. Testing limits leads to disobedience. Disobedience leads to punishment. Punishment leads to submission. Submission leads to compliance. Compliance leads to harmony.”
–ObdurateDemand from Fet

Call it misogynistic bullshit if you want, there’s a buttload of truth in there as I relate to dominance and submission.

I suppose I do want to call it misogynistic bullshit, if it’s intended as a general statement, but that doesn’t mean I haven’t experienced that pattern once or twice myself.

I’m just enough of a sadist to specially enjoy that moment when she’s tied up, she’s thinking “it’s fun, it’s intense, I can handle it…” and then she catches sight of the next toy to come out of the toy bag. And suddenly she starts to get a little worried:

From The Training Of O.

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Artist Lou Kagan is known for his nicely-drawn beautifully-suffering bondage heroines. This one is a classic example of the genre, from Dawn of The Jungle:

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Football posters, check. Beer signs, check. Makeshift bar, check. Nascar stuff, check. Carpeting on non-floor surfaces, check. Structural duct tape, check. Basement setting, check. Yup, it’s a man-cave!

And the thing about man caves is, usually they are off-limits for women. Unless of course she’s cute and wearing a short skirt and handcuffs:

Found in this gallery of amateur-looking bondage sweethearts.

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The expression on her face is so sweet: “Oh no, he’s tied my wrists! What’s he going to do next?”

What he’s going to do, sweet thing, is tie your right ankle up onto the counter next to your wrists. Then he’s going to take off his pants and do you in the ass, with a great camera angle.

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The first rule of any complex project: prepare your workspace. And if you’re whipping two girls at once, that means “tie them down properly!” first.

From Brutal Punishment.

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There are many many descriptions of what subspace is like, out there. But this one from Holly is a good one:

Then I’m tied, and he starts out with just his hands, running up and down the length of my body, warming me up, waking me up to the feeling in my skin. It’s sweet and sensual and gentle, and at the same time just a little frightening, knowing he’s priming me to fully feel what comes next.

What comes next is the flogger. The first time it lands on me it’s soft, just a dusting, soft flexible leather gently stroking down my back. The next time is not quite as soft. Soon the flogger is landing hard and fast on my shoulders, my back, my ass and thighs. It’s not truly painful–I’m not much into heavy pain–but it’s a constant pounding, a warm slap into my muscles each time the tails land on my skin.

And then–WHAM–I’m in subspace. It’s that strangely detached place I go when I’m high or heavily drunk, when I’m under hypnosis, and during intense sex; I’m aware of everything that’s going on and can think about it lucidly, but my reactions are not lucid and there’s a powerful sense of otherness to the experience, a folding in on myself, a shift to an emotional parallel universe. I’m nearly limp in the ropes, and aware of my limpness, but unable or unwilling to compose my body. I can sort of babble out words with great effort, but without that effort I just moan. For reasons I can’t possibly explain, it’s wonderful.

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