Bondage On The First Date
Here at Bondage Blog there’s a lot of “heavy” bondage content. Dungeons, chains, elaborate gear, unhappy damsels in fantastic unfortunate predicaments, victims of kidnap and ravishment, even devices of restraint so elaborate that Christian Gray himself would struggle to afford their purchase or installation.
But all this baroquely complex bondage play is not, I suspect, what happens in most bedrooms where regular folks get their kink on. As a bondage blogger I’m always looking to post something new and different, that pokes some visual fetish-button I’ve never poked before. My impression is that most couples’ actual bondage play is wholesomely less elaborate. They have a kinky thing or two that they like, and they do those things, and they fuck. Yay for common sense!
I doubt it’s any different for kinky-and-dating singles. If your hookup app is “getting it done” for you, sexy bondage play is just another “sex on the first date” thing: not always gonna happen, but perfectly possible if the common-interests match was good and the good chemistry happens. When a dating service like Snapsext does a good job of matching you with people who are lonely, kinky, and as impatient as you are, you’ll be set in no time. Less time in the coffee shop, more time in the bedroom/playroom/dungeon, that’s what I always say!
See, there I go again, mentioning dungeons. If you’ve got a dungeon and you have the kind of personality people trust to join you there on short association, my friend, you have got it made in the shade. But really, I probably should not have mentioned the dungeon in connection with first dates. What you do, though? That’s up to you.
Meanwhile, back in the bedroom, there’s no law saying first date bondage sex has to be tame or gentle. Sure, often as not it’s gonna feature simple ties or a single functional set of cuffs to keep her hands out of your way, maybe one or two sex toys to drive her wild when she’s helpless. But it’s not unheard of to completely empty the toybox, either. When the chemistry happens, it happens!
Image credits, top to bottom: The cutie with her wrists cuffed to her thighs is by artist Itou Yuuji. The blindfolded woman writhing with vibrators taped to her nipples and clit is by Sebas Chan. The collared and leashed honey covered in sticky jizz is by Iizuki Tasuku. The rope-harnessed sweetheart with big tits was drawn by Maullarmaullar. The tattooed librarian in rope harness and black latex is by the artist Em. And, last but not least, the sticky-but-happy satiated sweetie with her hands tied above her head and an entire toybox scattered on her bed is by Kamata Yuuya.
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