Bondage Blog

Kaya has posted some lighthearted lessons, a few of which are about bondage:

1.”Stop It Motherfucker!” is not a safe word. (Yes, I know it should be)

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9. You really shouldn’t laugh when they trip over the very rope they are trying to tie you up with either.

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11. You really can’t scoot away from the pain of clover clamps. (or alligator clamps! Yowsers!)

12. Proving that you can pick open the cage door when you are tied up is not as impressive as you think it should be. (even when it’s with your toes!)

13. Humming the “Jeopardy” theme, tapping your toes, sighing, or checking your watch while Master fiddles with a knot doesn’t please Him so much.

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19. When He is down on His knees adjusting your ankle cuffs, don’t mention that He looks mighty fine like that and would make a sexy little bitch boy. (It’s really almost worth the expression on His face though.)

Nice girl in a cage from Sadoslaves:

I’d like to call this essay to your attention: Domination For Nice Guys.

Excerpt:

Things are not always what they seem; there’s a big difference between erotic pain and ordinary, garden-variety pain. The experience of pain in an erotic context, for someone who’s wired that way, is nothing like what you may imagine; it’s an incredible rush, that adds a powerful spice to sexual pleasure. Think of it like spice in chili; you might not like taking a bite out of a hot pepper, but in the right amount, it makes the chili a whole lot better…

Even things that look extreme, such as flogging or whipping, can be deceptive. These things don’t feel like you imagine they do, and in the right environment with the right warmup, they’re wonderful. And once your partner’s endorphins, the natural painkilling chemicals produced in the brain, get going, it’s the most intense, delightful high you can ever believe.

Ladies, might be very useful if your fellow has been a little reluctant about exploring your darker fantasies with you.

I’ve always enjoyed the sub-tradition in Japanese bondage of mixing rope bondage with many bamboo sticks to further constrain the movement of the subject. This bondage pic from Water Bondage makes good use of that trope, and then they turn on the water hoses:

It’s raining, it’s pouring, the sub girl is saturated!

Elsewhere on Bondage Blog:

• More Bamboo Bondage
• Pretty Military Prisoners
• Wet And Worried
• Dungeon Interrogation
• Bondage Baptism

Here’s a post ( entitled Begging For Bondage) from a lady whose bondage needs are clearly not being met. She’s included some nice self-bondage photos, too:

I enjoy being tied up. I like how it brings out the hidden submissive in me. My husband isn’t a natural Dom so it becomes an odd case of me having to ask him to tie me up. For today’s photos I tied my wrists together with a silk scarf. It was pretty challenging moving stuff around and taking photos while being constricted, I liked it. I tried to look submissive in the shots but in the end I preferred the more alert, dynamic poses. I especially like the one with my open, waiting mouth.

I’d like to experiment more with bondage. The idea of being tied up so tightly that I am totally unable to move, maybe even a bit uncomfortable, excites me. Because I’m so dominant in other areas of my life the idea of being helpless, of giving myself over completely to my lover really turns me on. The elements of trust, lack of control, anticipation, surprise and suspense intrigue me.

I love the worried look on this pretty blonde’s face, and the way it’s framed by the unforgiving steel of the whipping stand she’s locked into:

And it’s not like she isn’t right to be worried. Is he going to cane her breasts?

Er, that would be yes. There are welts to prove it later in the photoset.

Pictures are courtesy of Whipped Pussy.

You always knew all that fancy decorative rope bondage was good for something.

No, not bondage fucking, you quick-pricked horndog! (Although it is good for that.)

What it’s really good for is improvising a flower arrangement centerpiece.

From Hogtied.com.