Bondage Blog

Hey, creepy guys! You know who you are … no, wait, probably not. Damn.

Let’s start over: Hey everybody, I wish I knew some way to make all the creepy guys on the BDSM parts of the internet go read this:

The Truth About Kinky Women

If you are the kind of person who sees a BDSM picture on a blog and is moved to post a comment that addresses your sexual demands to the model in the picture, you need to read it twice.

I love the way Holly nails the difference between real life kink culture and the version you always see on TV:

If there was one fact about BDSM, just one, that I could communicate to the culture at large, it would be this: at just about every BDSM play party I’ve ever been to, there has been a bowl of M&Ms.

Those M&Ms may be, as last night, part of a nice spread with cheese and fruit and cookies. They may be the dessert to a full dinner with hot meat and veggies. Or they may be jammed in the back corner next to some ripped-open jumbo bags of chips and 2-liters of Coke. But they’ll be there.

These M&Ms are, in some deep way, symbolic of the essential humanity and normalcy of kinksters. We may be freaky perverts, but we still like candy just as much as anyone else. And we still like to stand around the candy bowl talking and joking. And we’re still considerate enough of each other to remember to put out candy. The little M&M bowl stands as silent and delicious proof that even the most bizarre-seeming parties with people running around in diapers and chastity belts getting beaten and shocked and lit on fire are still parties, still places people go to relax and connect with one another.

Every time I see “S&M” represented in the media, I look for that M&M bowl. Or if not literally, something akin to it, some small indication that the same person can be genuinely and seriously kinky–and damn sexy about it–and also be a “gotta leave by 12 because I have work tomorrow” real person. TV bondage clubs never have M&Ms.

Via Kinky Delight, the lovely Rosaleen Young all tied up:

Elsewhere on Bondage Blog:

• Pillory Sad Face
• Rotten Tomatoes
• Pillory Privileges
• Pillory Sex

This bondage blowjob artwork appeared (without artist credit) in Secret Magazine #22:

Found at The Pleasure Principle:

I met NinjaMan at a Halloween party where I went as a prison girl. He asked, “Where’s your hand-cuffs?” I said, “Oh this outfit came with shackles but I forgot them.” NinjaMan said, “I’ll be right back” and he dashed away. He returned a few minutes later with real hand-cuffs and real shackles.

Now, ain’t that downright hospitable?

Here’s another bondage panel like this one, from The Rebel Conchita #2:

Wow, is this really the twentieth week of bondage links?

• Forced copulation. In an elaborate dungeon sex machine. Supervised by nuns. Just another day at Erotic Mad Science, I tell you!
• Sometimes a blindfold and a cock is all a girl really needs.
• Some things I don’t fully understand. You tie a girl on her knees facing the whipping post. Some pain is in the program. So, why a cushy pillow for her knees?
• The first rule of riding the subway: Look at nothing. Not even the naked woman in the bondage rope harness who just sat down beside you.
• If you’re going to cane somebody really hard, then restraining them like this isn’t a bad idea at all.
• Not really a bondage item, but possibly of interest to some readers: Bottom Seek is a new “multi-featured social networking and partner search service for male spankees and the men and women who enjoy spanking them.” It’s only been up for a couple of weeks and it’s already got nearly 150 members, so it looks to me like a community with a future. I think these micro-niched kinky dating sites are a promising trend, actually — why sort through ten million mostly-defunct profiles at one of the big sites when you can find a site that caters to your specific kink?
• This is hilarious, in a sad sort of way. A staff writer for Salon wound up in the audience at an Ultimate Surrender fight, totally failed to understand what it was about or what it was for, finds it completely unerotic, and even gives us a stereotypical “Not to sound like a prude but: These are clean, attractive, normal-looking people!” moment. Can you say, dazed and confused?
• So, this one time, at band camp… long story… but anyway, she was all tied up, but she still had her recorder, so she wasn’t bored…
• It’s important to maintain high standards in education. Sometimes that means extra-severe discipline…
• Clever things to do with rope, #12: use it to frame and expose a bare pussy!
• I’m not at all clear what sort of heavy electrical industrial device it is that this Bill Ward heroine has been chained over for her ass-beating. But if the spikes on the wall are any indication, it’s some serious deep-dungeon mojo machine.
• You know what they say… leashed and collared sex is best sex!
• She’s chained by her ankle to the bed in an otherwise bleak and empty room. And who’s that coming through the door?
• This femdom bondage whipping scene doesn’t do a lot for me, but I like the idea of a bondage wall. Play parts all handy on this side of the wall, but all the objections stay in the other room…
• When your hands are shackled and chained to the ceiling, there isn’t a lot you can do about the man with the leather strap who is repeatedly whipping right up into your pussy. Except scream, of course.
• Now, this is what I call a room with a view!
• She’s been tied up for a long time. A very long time. And finally she can’t help herself, she’s been trying to hold it in but she just can’t.
• How about Rosaleen Young outdoors with her hands tied to a high tree branch, so she can be whipped on her delectable bottom?
• She’s been chained, naked, to a big stump in the deep woods. And left there. Do you suppose there might be any bears?

Elsewhere on Bondage Blog:

• Friday Bondage Links Cornucopia #19
• Friday Bondage Links Cornucopia #18
• Friday Bondage Links Cornucopia #17
• Friday Bondage Links Cornucopia, Japanese Rope Bondage Edition
• Friday Bondage Links Cornucopia #16