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From A Feminist Sub:

I really believe that one of the things that made me repress my submissive leanings for so long was the fear that, by acting them out, or even just admitting them to myself, I was giving Patriarchy what it wanted. I was playing into its game.

But now that seems so silly to me. Partly because who the hell really cares what I do sexually with a partner of my choosing? But also because, well, so what if my sexual identity and fantasies happen to complement the sexual identities and fantasies of some or even many men? I mean… I’m a heterosexual woman – isn’t it a good thing for my sexual fantasies to complement those of the very people I prefer to have sex with? Doesn’t this mean better sex for everyone?

So I saw this blog post in somebody’s auto-updated Blogspot sidebar. Title was:

How Do You Clean A Girl Scout?

It turned out to be a tiny bit of a let-down — it’s a post by a sex educator about moral philosophy and the concept of purity as manifested in current public politics. Was I maybe thinking it would be something more like this? Or this? Or this or this or this or this or this? Or maybe this and this and this and this? Surely nothing like this or this or this or this!

Of course not … that would be wrong. And dirty.

In honor of the upcoming 2012 romantic holiday, and the considerable sale that The Stockroom has on many items every year around this time in honor of it, I thought I’d use my Friday bondage links pulpit to highlight the joys of pink and red BDSM gear, bondage hearts and leather flowers:

• Previously blogged about here on Bondage Blog: a Pink Leather Chastity Belt, a Red Leather Collar, a Pink Leather Collar, the Jawbreaker candy gag with pink or red head strap, the Bondage 101 kit complete with black leather rose, feather roses in red or black, festive red or black ribbon-and-bow cuffs for gift-wrapping yourself or others, the classic-but-serious pink hogtie clips, pink bondage tape, and a pretty handcuffs necklace. But wait…there’s more!
• How about a paddle that makes red hearts right on her bottom? Or just a heart-shaped leather paddle? Or this prettier one? Or one with two purple hearts?
• But no. You want something more severe. You want a fancy flogger in red and black, or a red cane, or a red riding crop.
• With toys like that coming out of your toybag, you might need a little visual control to make sure your surprises are genuinely surprising. This sleek little number in red satin is fine if she’s a good girl, but if she’s a determined peeker, you’ll need a serious fleece-lined blindfold in red leather, or maybe this padded pink leather one. And if those won’t get the job done, you might need an honest-to-god serious hood.
• Keeping her positioned where you want her is important too. You’ll need some red hemp rope for starters. If you’re too lazy for rope, I actually quite enjoy these twist ties (think heavy wire with padding). A spreader bar is always fun too.
• Not every girl is going to properly appreciate this festive pink speculum. But that doesn’t mean you can’t have fun with it!
• Of course there are many more options available in pink leather wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs, and collars. If that posture collar is not your thing, you can go for a simpler pink collar like this one or this one.
• Ball gags, too, are sometimes employed when a girl would scream but her master finds such noises displeasing. They, too, can be found in pink or red.
• Did we cover leashes? Again, pink ones and red ones are easily found.
• If there are orifices to be invaded and/or plugged, holiday colors can nonetheless be obtained. These red butt plugs and this pink inflatable dildo should get you started!
• Sexy costumery should never be neglected, either. From pink leather corsets to latex kiss dresses, from latex opera gloves and stockings to traditional red teddies and provocative panties, there’s always fun to be had in a special and provocative look.
• Did none of that work for you? In that case, you (or someone in your house) is probably crazy, and you might therefore want to consider a nice red leather straightjacket…

Elsewhere on Bondage Blog:

• Valentines Bondage Blowjobs
• Bondage Rope
• Get Ready For "Black And Blue Friday"
• BDSM And Love (And Staples)
• A Shadow Slaves Valentine

I never saw the loop, but I remember the bondage magazine with the stills. I think this was from a loop called Captured South Of The Border:

I know a girl I’d like to take here:

Via Hermione’s Heart.

Elsewhere on Bondage Blog:

• Soy Sauce In Bondage

It’s not often you get to see a real photo of a pretty topless girl in police handcuffs. But this lovely protester from the Ukrainian protest group FEMEN climbed a fence and got arrested in Davos, according to the FEMEN Livejournal:

The polezei are loving this duty, check out their grinning laughter in the next picture:

Thanks to Naked Protesters for finding the pictures.

Elsewhere on Bondage Blog:

• Handcuffed By A Bicycle Cop
• Bondage Squeegee Girl
• Cavity Searched Female Prisoner
• Arrested Woman
• Handcuffed Protesters
• Woman In Police Handcuffs

If some fire-n-brimstone religious asshole is railing against sluts and whores, we can sort of understand why. He hates the flesh, fears the pleasures thereof, and by extension, develops jealousy and hatred against those who revel in it.

But I’ve never understood why more-or-less normal hound-dog sexualized porn-enjoying men sometimes seem so obsessed with slut-hating. Perhaps Rain DeGrey nails it in a tweet:

When someone is hating on SLUTS & WHORES, what it really means is they are upset the sluts aren’t paying any attention to THEM.