Bondage Blog

Today’s tweet o’ the day comes from Mistress Matisse:

When life is full of change and stress, it’s very soothing to go into my dungeon, be The Mistress, do what I’m good at, and control EVERYTHING.

Clarisse Thorn offers advice to keep in mind when looking for a BDSM top. It strikes me as good:

Here’s a pro tip on looking for tops. If you’re talking to a top who can’t stop bragging about how awesome and experienced they are, I advise you to walk away. Or perhaps I should merely say that I, personally, would walk away from that. My favorite, most respectful dominant partners have all had a hefty sense of humility and been very willing to learn — even if they were very experienced.

It’s from a post called Submissive Skills which has much else of potential value.

Elsewhere on Bondage Blog:

• Clarisse Thorn On BDSM Roles
• Being Kinky Is My Superpower
• Talking About Kinky Sex

So Ronnie took a blindfold on her vacation to Barcelona:

Remember the blindfold? Well, I took it with me and early Saturday evening after I’d showered and P was having his turn I put the blindfold on, I didn’t cover my eyes just got it ready so I could pull it down as soon as I heard P get out of the shower.

I didn’t put anything else on, I could have wore stockings and suspenders or a pair of my sexy tights, god knows what I was thinking. (Have you ever done something like that?)

So anyway I heard the shower stop and I pulled the blindfold down, two minutes later I heard the door open and knew my husband must be staring at me, eyes ravishing me, I could imagine his penis tenting under the white hotel robe. Then I heard “What’s this all about?”

“What?” I replied, a stupid thing to say, I know, as if it was normal to come out of the shower and find your wife like this.

Then I felt his hands on me but not caressing or stroking, instead they were on my shoulder and him flipping me over on the bed. Then he spanked me, I mean it wasn’t hard but I’d recently showered and you know how that leaves you extra sensitive, he didn’t say why he was spanking me but when he stopped I felt him undo the blindfold and then he said I didn’t need to use that unless I had a migraine or something, then he asked me how much it had cost anyway.

Now you know I don’t lie to my husband.

“I got it from Ebay P, it was only £20.00” I told him.

I think I heard him tut, then I felt him move and thought I’d really blown it, but then I heard the TV start so he must have just stretched for the remote. Then he got on the bed and was manhandling me again but this time to position me across his lap, after which he gave me a prolonged spanking which really got me wriggling.

“This isn’t for bringing the silly thing with you, it’s for the waste of money,” he said, “and if you don’t stop struggling I’ll be putting it to good use and tying your legs with it.”

Well he didn’t tie me with it, and he didn’t fuck me either which is what I’d wanted from the start. But after a very pleasant evening out, he did. And he used the blindfold to gag me, which didn’t work at all and in fact if anything made me more noisy.

This is from an (I think) Italian horror comic called Terror Blue. In later panels these girls are walking around as partial skeletons, so I do not think this procedure in the tanks is intended to be a healthy one:

Kaya nails a truth that I think is often overlooked even by kinky people who should know better:

Him using me as a sex slave is how I know he loves me. This is my “love language”, as at odds as that can seem with what people normally think of regarding love and being cared for. Masochism comes in many flavors of deviance.

Yup!

A really nice, basic, “this is kink at Harvard” article in the Harvard Crimson does the rarely-achieved in college journalism: it manages to discuss kink and kinky sex without any of that “ha ha not me though” nervous posturing that you always used to see.

Sarah likes it when her hands are tied to the bedpost and a bar is secured between her knees, spreading them apart. During sex, her boyfriend dominates her roped body as she happily calls him “sir” and “master.” She asks her boyfriend to objectify her and call her derogatory terms.

For Sarah, whose name has been changed to protect her privacy, the pain from the ropes is not what turns her on. Sarah is kinky, which for her means enjoying losing control of the situation, and even control over her own body.

In honor of the recently-announced new electrosex site Electrosluts, I thought today’s bondage porn links extravaganza should focus on bondage girls getting zapped:

• Zap! to the collarbone ( source )
• Zap! cattle prod makes her jump ( source )
• Zap! electrodes everywhere ( source )
• Zap! with electric strap-on ( source )
• Zap! to her butt and pussy ( source )
• Zap! electrified buttplug edition ( source )
• Zap! leaping leg muscles ( source )
• Zap! or: the electric butthole ( source )
• Zap! the electrified dildo +1 ( source )
• Zap! hot nipples +1 ( source )

Elsewhere on Bondage Blog:

• Bondage Electrosluts
• Friday Bondage Porn Special #3: Cum On Her Face!
• Friday Bondage Porn Special #2: Anal Sex!
• Friday Bondage Porn Special #1: Pussy!
• Tender, or Terrible?