Many Flavors Of Deviance
Kaya nails a truth that I think is often overlooked even by kinky people who should know better:
Him using me as a sex slave is how I know he loves me. This is my “love language”, as at odds as that can seem with what people normally think of regarding love and being cared for. Masochism comes in many flavors of deviance.
Yup!
I really think people forget that. You say masochist and they picture bondage (not that there is anything wrong with that!) and that’s where they stop. For a lot of us, it’s ever so much different, though. :)