Comments on: BDSM While Black https://www.bondageblog.com/2016/03/21/bdsm-while-black/ Taking Pleasure In The Beauty Of Restrained Women Tue, 12 Apr 2016 13:40:58 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 By: Black Woman, Sex Slave – Bondage Blog https://www.bondageblog.com/2016/03/21/bdsm-while-black/#comment-72332 Tue, 12 Apr 2016 13:40:58 +0000 http://www.bondageblog.com/?p=10803#comment-72332 […] article by Feminista Jones goes nicely with the BDSM While Black piece from last month by a young black woman who likes kinky sex but was squicked by race play and master/slave stuff. FJ […]

]]> By: BluTiger07 https://www.bondageblog.com/2016/03/21/bdsm-while-black/#comment-72317 Thu, 31 Mar 2016 00:00:53 +0000 http://www.bondageblog.com/?p=10803#comment-72317 Bingo. I am also a black young lady and I can understand completely everything she is saying. Master/Mistress can hold you back sexually because you have to account for the mental, emotional, metaphysical/spiritual aspects of that weighing in on you. At least for black folks anyway.

When I have a partner from any race, I make it known Master does not pass these lip unless I am comfortable and safe to go that far with you and 10 times out of 10 you have to be a long term partner of mine. That’s not to say any interracial couple should NOT explore this because as a black woman yes I do know and understand and FEEL the implications from all around me it wrongs red alert what’s wrong with you etc, but that’s just because of the ugly history that my people had to endure.

I love bondage hands down. So if it is something you like, curious about and etc. do baby steps when you want to explore this. If you are confident and happy and ok with that mentally and can deal with the word Master verbally saying it, emotionally and spiritually feeling and you are ok more power to you.

]]> By: Rope Guy https://www.bondageblog.com/2016/03/21/bdsm-while-black/#comment-72304 Tue, 22 Mar 2016 20:57:04 +0000 http://www.bondageblog.com/?p=10803#comment-72304 Nilla, that’s pretty much where I’m coming from as well. I couldn’t have done this bondage blog all these years without being aware on an intellectual level of how many BDSM tropes have roots or at least resonances in the history of chattel slavery, but what it might feel like to navigate that symbolic minefield as a kinky American black person was (and remains, despite this helpful article) quite beyond my powers of imagination and empathy.

]]> By: Nilla https://www.bondageblog.com/2016/03/21/bdsm-while-black/#comment-72303 Tue, 22 Mar 2016 02:35:18 +0000 http://www.bondageblog.com/?p=10803#comment-72303 Never ever thought about it in that context. White privilege just slapped me upside the head. I always feel that little thrill to call Himself as my Master. We are both white. Thanks for the thoughtful posting.

Nilla

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