How To Find A Dom

SapioSlut recently reposted from FetLife a lengthy essay by “TheSensualDom2008″:

For New(ish) Girls: A Guide to Finding that First Dom

Written in the voice of a dominant man, it contains much advice that looks useful to me; especially in the warnings about what to avoid, the red flags thrown up by poseurs and wannabes, and the basic internet dating safety tips.

That said, I had to repeatedly restrain my own outbursts of laughter when reading the sections describing how “a dominant guy” is likely to feel and to behave. I kept hearing the imagined voice of Tarl Cabot describing the virtues of a warrior. It’s not that the traits and behaviors identified aren’t common among many dominant men, and it’s not that many of these traits and behaviors aren’t sexy to submissive women. Both of these things may be true. But the overall picture painted is an unrealistic fantasy, I’d say. For a self-described dom to describe dominant men in such glowing colors? That strikes me as a spectacular display of (real or imagined, we’ll never know) peacock feathers.

Submissive girls, may you be so lucky as to find such a dominant man!

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A Bit Of Tight Rope

The simplicity of this bondage photo speaks to me. The rope work is not spectacularly good, and the pose is a veritable cliche, but that basic harness is cinched tight and I love the non-explicit pussy-rope-over-panties that nonetheless manages to look as if it has her entire attention:

tight rope over panties

Found here.

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Don’t Forget To See The Humor In It

I’ll let Pat Powers explain this one:

Ya know, we stay so busy being sexy and bondage-y that sometimes we forget just how fricking funny sexual bondage is. Well, I don’t, but to judge from a lot of websites, plenty of others do.

Then you see a model like this flashing a big delighted grin while she’s naked and chained wrist to ankle in a hogtie, because OF COURSE bondage is funny, and fun, and downright silly at times, and OF COURSE it makes you laugh if you’re in a non-threatening environment when you do it.

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The Sawhorse Rider

You just know she’s going to be a mite uncomfortable after an hour or three in that position:

vintage strict bondage with pussy pain

From UseNet.

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The Better To Smell You With

That look in her eyes says he just told her he’s about to bring out his collection of carefully-aged dirty socks:

nose held open for forced unpleasant smelling

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Friday Bondage Links Cornucopia #60

Friday bondage links my ass, how about some Christmas Eve bondage links? Have a merry merry:

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Captured Nun, Forced Blowjob

This is from Calvary of a Nun, a Dofantasy sex comic:

captured nun wearing a ring gag

naked bondage nun gives a forced blowjob

face fucking a nude bondage nun with a ring gag in her mouth

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Caged Girl Wants Out

But she’s not getting out:

collared asian slavegirl in a white metal cage

From UseNet.

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Vintage Chair Bondage

From one of those delicious old bondage magazines:

pretty girl with big tits tied to a wooden chair

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Unique Elbow Restraints

I saw these fancy metal elbow restraints on Tumblr. I wonder who sells them?

metal restraints for arms and elbows

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