Speaking In Public About BDSM
Allyssaroyce talks about BDSM and speaking about it:
As usual, the woman who approached me after my TEDx talk wanted me to tell her that it was demeaning to see women tied up and spanked. And as usual, I told her I didn’t feel that way at all. I told her that I am a woman who likes to be tied up, blindfolded, spanked and devoured. And that it takes an enormous amount of strength to stand up and say that. To ask for it. To be good, giving and game sexually and get what I want.
I get spanked, caned and whipped. Its not deameani for me either. I love been kept in bondage and punished heavilly. So do lots of women But not all love punishment.It can be deemed abuse . eg. and Australian female sailor accused a Leaftenant Commander sailor of sexual abuse He was Court Marshalled There is an appeal as she had submmited herself willingly several times over a period, before she complained. Far more women are abused and bashed by their husbands than those who claim sexual abuse It is demeaning fof those women who seldom claim abuse than those who enjoy as B&D relationship with their partners. My partner and I have enjoyed a B&D relationship for many years
I can scarcely wait for the video of the TEDx talk to get online, which sadly it doesn’t seem to be just yet.