Bondage Blog

Manly. Dominant. Two great tastes that taste great together, right?

Sure. But then, there are the guys who think that these are somehow the same thing, or go together inexorably, or some shit like that. Worse yet, they tend to think “being a man” is the same thing as “having a dick”, and so they reason from “I have a dick” to “she’ll want to kneel before it.”

Worst? When this does not happen — and so they whine about it on the internets. You’ve seen it in chat rooms, you know you have. You shuddered and clicked away.

Moving on. Kaya has written an eloquent essay on the nature of manhood and its relationship, if any, to dominance. She says there’s more space between manliness and dominance than you might think. It’s worth a read.

There’s a scene in the classic “women in prison camp” movie The Big Bird Cage in which a female prisoner is punished for a failed escape attempt by being hoisted up and dangled by her hair:

Screencaps via alt. binaries. multimedia. bdsm.

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Meet Ahryan Astyn, cum slave:

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This is a bawdy old story with just a bit of mild bondage in it:

A certain judge, who kept many servants, was reading, one evening, in his study, when he heard a hell of a noise coming from the kitchen.

He rang for the butler and questioned him as to the cause of the commotion. The butler replied: “I beg your pardon, your honor, but we were enjoying ourselves playing a new game.”

The judge, of course, demanded to know the game. “Well, your honor, we blindfolded all the kitchen maids, and then we’d catch them one by one, fuck them, and make them guess who it was.”

“Indeed!” said the scandalized judge. “I’ll not have any more such immoral nonsense taking place in my house. You must stop it at once. But what was the cause of the great uproar I just heard coming from my kitchen?”

“Well, your honor, it’s like this. We blindfolded the cook and stuck a rolling-pin up her ass. And she guessed it was you!”

When John Norman would spend six pages obsessing about “slave heat” in his later Gor novels, I don’t think this is quite what he had in mind:

From alt. binaries. pictures. erotica. bondage.

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Greydancer, on being a bondage rigger:

I’ve had a lot of jobs. I’ve learned to kill as a marine, to heal as an emt, to fleece as an insurance salesman, to geek out as an Apple employee, to be funny as a teacher, to be bored as a data entry slave, all to put food on my table. As such things go, fulfilling a beautiful woman’s fantasies and helping her have multiple orgasms so that other people could watch it and have their own multiple orgasms…well, this is not a bad job to have.

When I was growing up, the phrase for things like that was “nice work, if you can get it.”

From The Vanilla Gallery:

I have always enjoyed the bondage art by “Ashely” that appeared in a series of HOM story pamphlets back in the 1980s. Available now on Kinky Delight is a three-image series featuring the wayward young Lady Elizabeth and her unwilling adventures with an “Acme Butt Plug Kit”:

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The Twisted Monk did a web interview recently in which he explained his “three strikes” procedure for dealing with snoopy strangers who want to know his business. This resonates with me because I deal with this all the time; people want to know what I do for a living but sometimes they don’t (you can just tell) really want to hear anything about bondage porn. But they keep asking the penetrating questions! Here’s Monk (and I have so been there):

TR: How do you explain what you do to strangers?

Monk: Eventually, everyone will ask that. Talk to someone long enough and the conversation will go down that path. Now for the most part I’m very open about what I do, however not everyone is too keen on the whole “sex industry” thing so I sometimes have to fudge a bit about such things. I suppose I could just out and out lie. Tell them that I am a “Drug Mule” or an “Image Consultant for the Moral Majority” perhaps? No, instead I prefer to play the “3 strikes and you’re out” game with them.

Take, for example, a recent conversation I had with an insurance sales person. Now she was a nice enough gal, a fifty-something mom who drove an absurdly large SUV, lived in the suburbs and probably considers “adventurous sex” to be fucking with the lights on, in any room other than the bedroom.

“Blah, blah, blah… so what do you do for a living?”
Strike one, give them a generic answer and then try to divert the conversation elsewhere.
“Me? Oh I have a small retail internet company, so tell me about this dental benefit again?”

“Oh that is nice. What do you sell?”
Strike two, now I am trying to be nice here but you were not satisfied with my answer so I’ll give you a bit more and hope that settles it.
“Organic hemp products”

“Really? What kind of products? ”
Strike three…
“I make and sell bondage rope to the sex industry.”
Several seconds of dumbstruck silence
“You what?!”
Ok honey, I tried, I honestly tried but now you asked for it.
“Bondage rope, you know so people can tie each other up and fuck? I supply most of the sex shops on the west coast and some of the best hardcore bondage websites in the industry. In fact I’m currently in negotiations with a major porn studio to supply rope for an upcoming series of videos.”

That usually shuts them right up.

Kink on Demand, I just discovered, has some spectacular “bondage beginner” shoots available, featuring pretty young ladies enjoying their first-ever bondage experience. I was particularly charmed by Garotinha as she was forcibly committed to the considerable endearments of an enormous jacuzzi:

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This amateur bondage gallery from Amateur Tied features a wife tied up and looking ever-so-slightly reproachful:

“Yes, dear, if you keep struggling like that, your panties will fall off.”

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OK, so in this detail Our Heroine clearly feels she’s got problems:

And, I guess she does. Not only is she chained to a girder, but she’s got plenty to worry about: leering munchkins, vats of luminous fluids, an ominous dipping procedure, and she’s next in line:

If you like your bondage sex squalid, it doesn’t get any better than this.

It’s a Behind Kink image that I suspect was made during production of The Training Of O.

The Twisted Monk has just posted a story he likes to tell when people ask him why he likes bondage. It’s too good not to quote and it’s too short to excerpt, so I’m, well, just ganking the whole thing. Maybe he’ll forgive me if I distract him by throwing in this only-tangentially-relevant link to the internet storefront where he sells his incomparable bondage rope?

Few years back I was selling rope at a convention and got into this very conversation with three well known and well regarded rope tops. When asked, the first paused and stroked his chin contemplatively and said, “It would have to be the artistry of it all, the lines and how they form across the body. The symmetry of the rope and how it forms the bottom into a compelling shape…”

The next one shook his head and disagreed, “That is all well and good, but for me it is the engineering of it. The “how” of doing bondage, what knots are going to be the strongest and most useful, how am I going to execute the bondage in the most efficient and streamlined fashion… that is what I really like”

Turning to the third and final rigger, he sorta shrugged and in a matter of fact voice said, “I do it cuz trying up pretty girls makes my dick hard. Always has.”

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This looks like my kind of picnic:

From Wired Pussy.

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From alt. binaries. pictures. erotica. anime.

From the Spank Slaves Blog, again:

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